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After 20+ years as a Marriage and Family Therapist, I've watched wonderful people lose hope in dating. The problem isn't attraction — it's mismatched intentions. Here's what a better starting point looks like.
Dr. John Gottman found that thriving couples turn toward each other's small bids for connection 86% of the time. Here's how to bring that same practice into online dating.
Attraction gets you to swipe. It doesn't get you to stay. Here's what actually predicts long-term relationship satisfaction — and why most dating apps optimize for the wrong thing.
Gottman calls it the antidote to contempt — and the single biggest predictor of long-term love. Here's why online dating rarely leaves room for it, and how to build it in.
Dating apps promised to solve loneliness. For millions, they've made it worse. Here's why solo swiping backfires — and what happens when your friends are part of the process.