™Find someone who's as intentional as you are.
Every member discovers how they show up in relationships before becoming discoverable. No swiping. No unsolicited DMs. Just intentional people.
Stop putting your best foot forward. Start putting your true foot forward.
Free · About 90 seconds · No signup required to start
What actually makes Vetted different
- Built by a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist with 20+ years of experience.
- Every member completes a Relationship Readiness Assessment before becoming discoverable.
- Introductions are mutual — no unsolicited messages, no swiping.
- Members can be vouched for by trusted friends and family.
- Human-reviewed introductions — a real person reads every request.
- Privacy-first: photos and contact info are only shared after mutual acceptance.
- Therapist-developed assessment
- Human-reviewed introductions
- Trusted-contact verification
- Double opt-in introductions
What is Vetted?
Vetted is a small, invite-quality dating community for people who are done with swipe fatigue. Every member takes 90 seconds to discover how they show up in relationships before they appear in browse, so the people you meet have actually done the work to show up well — not just uploaded a good photo.
Instead of endless DMs, you request a thoughtful introduction. Each request is thoughtfully reviewed to help ensure mutual goals and a respectful experience.
How it works
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Discover how you show up in relationships
Answer 18 questions in about 90 seconds — no account required to start. Create a free profile to unlock and save your full results.
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Claim your badge and profile
Create an account only when you're ready to save your result and join. Your badge — Still Exploring, Growing Intentionally, or Ready for Something Real — appears on your profile.
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Add the essentials
First name, age, city, photo, and relationship goals.
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Meet intentional people
Browse profiles and request thoughtful introductions. Each request is thoughtfully reviewed to help ensure mutual goals and a respectful experience.
Why Vetted is different
A readiness badge, not a score
Three honest identities that describe how you show up today. Shareable, not a leaderboard.
Three honest badges
Earn one of three readiness badges — visible on every profile.
Trust network
Friends and family can vouch for you. More vouches, stronger trust badge.
Introductions, not DMs
No swiping, no messaging chaos. Request a thoughtful introduction and our team reviews the match.
Hi — I'm Christian. I built Vetted because I believe intentional people deserve a better way to meet each other. For over 20 years as a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, I've sat with couples untangling patterns that started the day they met — and with singles worn down by apps that reward the loudest photo and the fastest thumb.
Vetted is small on purpose. Every member completes a readiness assessment I designed using the same frameworks I use in my practice, so the people you meet have actually done the work to show up well. If that sounds like you, take the quiz — then reply to any email you get from us. A real person reads every one.
Have a question about Vetted, intentional dating, or your badge? Ask me directly →
Discover Your Relationship Readiness
Free to start. About 90 seconds. Create a free profile to unlock and save your full results.
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