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The Secret to Building Connection (Even in Online Dating): Turn Toward, Not Away

Can YOUR success at dating be predicted? Yes!! What separates strong relationships from those that slowly fade out? That’s what this blog is about. According to Dr. John Gottman, one of the most powerful indicators of a lasting relationship is how couples respond to each other’s “bids” for connection. These bids might look like a […]

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Fondness and Admiration: The Secret Ingredient Missing in Online Dating

I absolutely LOVE Dr. Gottman’s pioneering work in the relationships world! In his research on successful couples, Dr. John Gottman identified “Fondness and Admiration” as the second key principle of lasting love. When couples consistently see each other through a positive lens—highlighting what’s lovable, not just what’s frustrating—they’re far more likely to thrive. In the

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Swiping Solo: Why Dating Online Alone Feeds Loneliness—And How Vetted Changes the Game

If you’ve ever felt burned out, second-guessed your matches, or wondered if online dating is just… off, you’re not alone. Dating apps have made it easier to meet people—but harder to feel supported. Behind every swipe is a decision made alone. No feedback. No second opinion. Just pressure and more loneliness. At Vetted, we believe

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Building Love Maps: The Key to Meaningful Online Dating

For the next few articles, we will bring you evidenced-based information on relationships that you can use while dating. We are excited to showcase the research of Dr. John Gottman. Let’s get started! When it comes to lasting relationships, John Gottman’s research reveals that successful couples deeply understand each other’s inner worlds—what he calls “Love

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The Power of Perspective: Why Your Inner Circle Should Have a Say in Your Dating Life

Dating today is like shopping online sometimes what looks great in the pictures turns out to be a total disaster in person. And just like you wouldn’t buy a questionable product without checking the reviews, why would you dive into dating without a little feedback from the people who know you best? At Vetted, we

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Do you have dating app blind spots? We all do!

Online Dating Blind Spots: How You May Be Sabotaging Your Own Journey To Finding Your Forever Person Online dating can be an exciting and convenient way to meet potential partners, but many people unknowingly sabotage their own success. These “blind spots” can prevent meaningful connections from forming, leaving users frustrated and disillusioned. Below are some

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Swiping Right: Why Looks Alone Won’t Lead to Lasting Love

In the age of online dating, first impressions are often reduced to a single swipe. Apps encourage quick judgments based on profile pictures, leading many users to prioritize physical attraction above all else. While attraction is an essential component of any romantic relationship, relying solely on looks to make dating decisions comes with significant downsides.

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Dating Burnout Is Real: Why You’re Exhausted and How to Fix It

If you’ve ever felt drained, frustrated, or downright exhausted by the dating scene, you’re not alone. Many singles experience dating burnout, a state of emotional and mental fatigue that comes from endless swiping, disappointing first dates, and shallow interactions that lead nowhere. The truth is, modern dating often feels more like a never-ending game than a

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10 Proven Ways to Lead A Healthy and Lasting Relationship

Let’s face the truth, here. Marriage is a journey, isn’t it? Once the honeymoon phase of marriage is complete, couples are left with the non-exceptional and routine expectations of everyday life. They go to work, cook, do laundry, pay bills, and manage family and social relationships. Oh, and those pesky little things called “differences”. Those

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